is the job profile of a diplomat considered attractive and of status around the world? I guess diplomats get more exposure to different women fo different countries through parties, events, and general tourism in the posted country..Do women view diplomats just as they view high-end lawyers?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Job of Diplomats..
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BillyPilgrim
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The travel can be a attractor, but remember you're being trained to be non-confrontational. You're in the business of being bland, and the old expression goes "you are what you do".
fortunately that's a plus for me..all the necessary arrangements are done by the government itself. Being an Indian diplomat doesn't require money..just requires extreme talent..30 people get selected from 1000000 candidates by UPSC
ya..although the Indian foreign policy has become DYNAMIC in the past few years..I hope the trend continues..
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Who knows? It likely depends on the woman. Some may find it mysterious since he likely has a lot of things he can't discuss with others, or that they are able to talk to powerful people or are involved in politics, etc.