CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Everyone comes back
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So who were you before?Everyone comes back
Rollo TamassiSo who were you before?
He a corny dresser, I can see the resemblance.Rollo Tamassi
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!@Jesse Pinkman departure isn't sitting well with me.
Got another SNL this weekend as well.And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!
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4/12/24 - Roaring back into Miami
I return to Miami from Europe and this happens.post30.substack.com
How was it meeting the Red pill dorks?So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
You can read about it hereHow as it meeting the Red pill dorks?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I briefly looked at Michael Sartain and it looks like his program resembles a club promoter lifestyle a lot.So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.
You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.
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I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
Seems none of these gals who you've acquainted yourself with have shared a fate similar to that of Jane Margolis, Jesse. This in and of itself is exceptionally commendableMontreal trip
3 dates
2 lays
All on my blog
Tourist frame, or "Life experience frame" is real. The girls that have travelled or somehow are life experienced are more comfortable in themselves and simply not timid and scared. I get the furthest with these two types of girls. This is the danger of not being in a larger city, the girls have locked themselves.One guy I know told me about the "Tourist Frame" in Miami. The frame is that tourists are fun, more likely to try new things, and not stuckup prudes like the locals are. He is a fun guy with an interesting life and in most cases, only tourists are cool enough to break into that frame. Locals CAN break into his cool life if he approaches them and they are nice, engaging, and chatty with him. Then, they are different from the other locals and get to be a part of his cool tribe.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.
I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
Can you bump that thread? I got some more opinions to share but I lost where the thread is lolGood to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.
The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was
Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school
In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.
Beautiful country but unfortunately, my trip was filled with lack of sleep on a crappy flight and I had to burn days just to catch up on sleep.I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.