"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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And I got bored and came back, you can never really stay away forever for some times lol. Anyways, bumping this as I got a SNL from nightgame this month!

Got another SNL this weekend as well.

I will talk more about what actually changed.
 

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So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.

You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.


I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
 

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So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.

You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.


I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
How was it meeting the Red pill dorks?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So for April, I finished with two lays, both from nightgame. May was lackluster due to my energy levels.

You can see my second lay report for April below, weirdest lay ever.


I also went to an event where I met Michael Sartain, Rollo Tomassi, and Adam Sosnick.
I briefly looked at Michael Sartain and it looks like his program resembles a club promoter lifestyle a lot.
 

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Montreal trip

3 dates

2 lays

All on my blog
Seems none of these gals who you've acquainted yourself with have shared a fate similar to that of Jane Margolis, Jesse. This in and of itself is exceptionally commendable
 

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One guy I know told me about the "Tourist Frame" in Miami. The frame is that tourists are fun, more likely to try new things, and not stuckup prudes like the locals are. He is a fun guy with an interesting life and in most cases, only tourists are cool enough to break into that frame. Locals CAN break into his cool life if he approaches them and they are nice, engaging, and chatty with him. Then, they are different from the other locals and get to be a part of his cool tribe.
Tourist frame, or "Life experience frame" is real. The girls that have travelled or somehow are life experienced are more comfortable in themselves and simply not timid and scared. I get the furthest with these two types of girls. This is the danger of not being in a larger city, the girls have locked themselves.
 

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Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.

Life has been on the right track after 2024 which was arguably one of the worst years in game for me. I think me being unemployed had a ton to do with it but my Sweden trip was not at all ideal which I will write about. 2024 took me to some lows but after months of recovering, I come back in 2025.

I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright dudes, it's been quite a while. I have not logged in here since October but I guess after some point, you do want to come back when you get bored or have some downtime. As @CornbreadFed said, everyone comes back. I am not even sure what state this forum is in but I have to say, I changed a ton in these past few months.

I look back on this field report and realize how much I have changed so much of my approaches and how I operate. More on this as I find the time which has been tough to come by since life gets real busy.
Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.

The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was

Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school

In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
 

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Good to see you back. This has been one of my favorite threads over time.

The thread where you made a name for yourself on this forum was

Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school

In general, we don't discuss field reports enough.
Can you bump that thread? I got some more opinions to share but I lost where the thread is lol
 

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I was in Sweden recently and it was so boring that I cut my trip short and went back to Denmark.
Beautiful country but unfortunately, my trip was filled with lack of sleep on a crappy flight and I had to burn days just to catch up on sleep.

All I know is after that trip it was downhill for a while. Screw it I am going to update my blog reflecting on that.
 

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After a long break of months, I finally did it and went out this past weekend. Granted it was under the excuse of having friends that wanted to hang out. I will write more about social life, cold approach, and that happy medium. Going out solo is a pain.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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