"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ive never been approached

I want a GiRl

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ive never been approached by a girl, could it be becuase im skinny? im 14 years old and i wiegh 6 stones... or cud it be something eles?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it could be that YOU should approach.

girls rarely approach, and you have to have a perfect look about you. i.e not to hot(girls think there not good enough) and not to ugly(girls think they are good enough for you)


you have to be perfect.
 

jonny football hero

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How tall are you?

Oh yeah. You're 14. Girls don't know **** at 14
 

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yes, it's a weight thing. i rarely used to get approached. now, it's changing
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PiHiPlaya

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what the hell is a stone?

The Only Stones you should focus on are the 2 between your legs... grab them and YOU approach the girls
 

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i forgot to add that body language is another important factor. you can look like 100bucks but if you're slouching with a frown on your face, you've got the same chance of getting approached as someone who looks like shyt
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Most guys rarely get approached no matter how much they weigh...

YOU APPROACH. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.

you're not a woman. you don't sit on your pretty arse waiting to get approached.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Weight doesn't mean jack ****, just go and approach. Be prepared for some confused girls though, at that age they're pretty ****ed-up in the head :D
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Weight doesn't mean jack ****,
yes it does. if you're bulked up with a low bf%, you have a much better chance of being accepted/of increasing their IL level.

nevertheless, don't use that as an excuse not to approach.

at your age (14 yeh?) girls are stupid and can be easily led by a guy who takes control of them/shows dominance/masculinity
 
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