"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ive never been approached

I want a GiRl

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ive never been approached by a girl, could it be becuase im skinny? im 14 years old and i wiegh 6 stones... or cud it be something eles?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it could be that YOU should approach.

girls rarely approach, and you have to have a perfect look about you. i.e not to hot(girls think there not good enough) and not to ugly(girls think they are good enough for you)


you have to be perfect.
 

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How tall are you?

Oh yeah. You're 14. Girls don't know **** at 14
 

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yes, it's a weight thing. i rarely used to get approached. now, it's changing
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PiHiPlaya

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what the hell is a stone?

The Only Stones you should focus on are the 2 between your legs... grab them and YOU approach the girls
 

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i forgot to add that body language is another important factor. you can look like 100bucks but if you're slouching with a frown on your face, you've got the same chance of getting approached as someone who looks like shyt
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Most guys rarely get approached no matter how much they weigh...

YOU APPROACH. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.

you're not a woman. you don't sit on your pretty arse waiting to get approached.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NYC Dude

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Weight doesn't mean jack ****, just go and approach. Be prepared for some confused girls though, at that age they're pretty ****ed-up in the head :D
 

gav

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Weight doesn't mean jack ****,
yes it does. if you're bulked up with a low bf%, you have a much better chance of being accepted/of increasing their IL level.

nevertheless, don't use that as an excuse not to approach.

at your age (14 yeh?) girls are stupid and can be easily led by a guy who takes control of them/shows dominance/masculinity
 
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