"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ive never been approached

I want a GiRl

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ive never been approached by a girl, could it be becuase im skinny? im 14 years old and i wiegh 6 stones... or cud it be something eles?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it could be that YOU should approach.

girls rarely approach, and you have to have a perfect look about you. i.e not to hot(girls think there not good enough) and not to ugly(girls think they are good enough for you)


you have to be perfect.
 

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How tall are you?

Oh yeah. You're 14. Girls don't know **** at 14
 

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yes, it's a weight thing. i rarely used to get approached. now, it's changing
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what the hell is a stone?

The Only Stones you should focus on are the 2 between your legs... grab them and YOU approach the girls
 

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i forgot to add that body language is another important factor. you can look like 100bucks but if you're slouching with a frown on your face, you've got the same chance of getting approached as someone who looks like shyt
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Most guys rarely get approached no matter how much they weigh...

YOU APPROACH. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.

you're not a woman. you don't sit on your pretty arse waiting to get approached.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Weight doesn't mean jack ****, just go and approach. Be prepared for some confused girls though, at that age they're pretty ****ed-up in the head :D
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Weight doesn't mean jack ****,
yes it does. if you're bulked up with a low bf%, you have a much better chance of being accepted/of increasing their IL level.

nevertheless, don't use that as an excuse not to approach.

at your age (14 yeh?) girls are stupid and can be easily led by a guy who takes control of them/shows dominance/masculinity
 
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