"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ive never been approached

I want a GiRl

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ive never been approached by a girl, could it be becuase im skinny? im 14 years old and i wiegh 6 stones... or cud it be something eles?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it could be that YOU should approach.

girls rarely approach, and you have to have a perfect look about you. i.e not to hot(girls think there not good enough) and not to ugly(girls think they are good enough for you)


you have to be perfect.
 

jonny football hero

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How tall are you?

Oh yeah. You're 14. Girls don't know **** at 14
 

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yes, it's a weight thing. i rarely used to get approached. now, it's changing
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PiHiPlaya

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what the hell is a stone?

The Only Stones you should focus on are the 2 between your legs... grab them and YOU approach the girls
 

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i forgot to add that body language is another important factor. you can look like 100bucks but if you're slouching with a frown on your face, you've got the same chance of getting approached as someone who looks like shyt
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
Most guys rarely get approached no matter how much they weigh...

YOU APPROACH. ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT.

you're not a woman. you don't sit on your pretty arse waiting to get approached.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NYC Dude

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Weight doesn't mean jack ****, just go and approach. Be prepared for some confused girls though, at that age they're pretty ****ed-up in the head :D
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
Weight doesn't mean jack ****,
yes it does. if you're bulked up with a low bf%, you have a much better chance of being accepted/of increasing their IL level.

nevertheless, don't use that as an excuse not to approach.

at your age (14 yeh?) girls are stupid and can be easily led by a guy who takes control of them/shows dominance/masculinity
 
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