"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've hit the Plateau Effect. Help!

moneyisking

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Title says it. Worked out for a while, but see the same result... no change in body. I have changed the workout method to *as heavy as you can* to see some changes now. But I am not professional, I don't know sh!t. Help me if you are familiar with this please.

Plus, I need some good effective lower body workout. Thank you fellow DJs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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I've found taking a week or two off to be a highly effective plateau killer. I keep my nutrition right in the offtime, and when I go back I'm making hay again.
 

EFFORT

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Post your diet and routine
 

Colossus

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The main reason why people plateau is they cant follow a damn plan for more than a week.

I recommend the 5/3/1. It's simple, effective, and you dont need to know a lot to use it. Buy the eBook at elitefts.com

Also post your routine and diet so we can help you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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