mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You too good to use a "slump buster"?and here I am, no sex for almost 3 years
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You too good to use a "slump buster"?and here I am, no sex for almost 3 years
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You said that men should "get the ball rolling" in cases like that yeah? Fvck whoever they can, self improve, and then get hotter pvssy over time.You too good to use a "slump buster"?
Can't do that, can't sleep with a girl if I'm not attracted to herYou said that men should "get the ball rolling" in cases like that yeah? Fvck whoever they can, self improve, and then get hotter pvssy over time.
Who said you to choose a girl you are not attracted to?Can't do that, can't sleep with a girl if I'm not attracted to her
Good for you! But it's half of my amount of time so you are still second place in this area.and here I am, no sex for almost 3 years
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't want to call you a dummy, but it's dumb not to do it if you understand how life works it will be one of the first thing you would do. You have a 3 years drought, which means to the game you are a NON SEXUAL male. It takes 30-60 days dry and outside of puzzy to start losing your swag due to sex and being chosen. So a man needs to stay active.Can't do that, can't sleep with a girl if I'm not attracted to her
cus the ones I'm attracted to aren't interestedWho said you to choose a girl you are not attracted to?
Sadly, they don’t care.It blows my mind that in these bars people refuse to wear a mask and are all up in each other's face.
Do they not know or just not care? I can't tell.
Idk bro. I think the US is doomed
They usually aren't if they are working. @Visionist has experience in this area and deals with women he is attracted to. @Visionist Why don't you weigh in on how that works for you as a slump-buster?cus the ones I'm attracted to aren't interested
Dang. That happens pretty quick.I don't want to call you a dummy, but it's dumb not to do it if you understand how life works it will be one of the first thing you would do. You have a 3 years drought, which means to the game you are a NON SEXUAL male. It takes 30-60 days dry and outside of puzzy to start losing your swag due to sex and being chosen. So a man needs to stay active.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I dont ever plan to marry, ive lost my desire to fall in love with women given all the ****ty behavior ive seen them do. I honeslty think most women are terrible human beings.@LucianoM , Do you have any goals in the long-term with this? Do you see yourself getting married in the future and having a family, especially once you've seen some women are too shameless about cheating? Are all of your lays vanilla or did it go any further?
The guys analyzed it, and figured it out. I knew it didn't take super long. On the flip side, if you been dry for some months, and you get a good weekend in with a babe who chose you, most of your swag will be restored, and you'll notice babes checking you out and feeling you.Dang. That happens pretty quick.
You have to stay on it and keep your options up.
You feel they are more corrupt than men?I dont ever plan to marry, ive lost my desire to fall in love with women given all the ****ty behavior ive seen them do. I honeslty think most women are terrible human beings.
My plan is just to keep partying and fvck as many girls as possible. I got a vasectomy a couple years ago so im pretty much commited to this lifestyle, theres no going back for me.
You could have a live in GF with sex every day.Dang. That happens pretty quick.
You have to stay on it and keep your options up.
Oh dude, no man can ever achieve the level of savagery that a women can. A lot of the girls i fvck have boyfriends that they use to extract resources from. The worst is when thier bfs call them while im with them, just listening to these coniving girls lie to their bfs and stay composed like nothing seems evil to me.You feel they are more corrupt than men?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So you are hate-fvcking them?I dont ever plan to marry, ive lost my desire to fall in love with women given all the ****ty behavior ive seen them do. I honeslty think most women are terrible human beings.
My plan is just to keep partying and fvck as many girls as possible. I got a vasectomy a couple years ago so im pretty much commited to this lifestyle, theres no going back for me.
They hate those guys because the women is a peace of shyt and he's good to her. You on the other hand, don't trust them as far as you can throw them and are cautious.Oh dude, no man can ever achieve the level of savagery that a women can. A lot of the girls i fvck have boyfriends that they use to extract resources from. The worst is when thier bfs call them while im with them, just listening to these coniving girls lie to their bfs and stay composed like nothing seems evil to me.
No, i love women they are fun af i just wouldnt marry one. I would date one though.So you are hate-fvcking them?
I also think girls know the type of guy i am, they know im a "fvckboy" and just want to have some fun. So its kinda like an unwritten agreement that whatever happens is just a fling or FWB at most.They hate those guys because the women is a peace of shyt and he's good to her. You on the other hand, don't trust them as far as you can throw them and are cautious.
They love "labels" and "categories", makes sense.I also think girls know the type of guy i am, they know im a "fvckboy" and just want to have some fun. So its kinda like an unwritten agreement that whatever happens is just a fling or FWB at most.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.