DMSR76
Senior Don Juan
I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I thought it was rather amusing. Thought I'd share.
It's simple, really...
It's simple, really...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's a lot easier to understand when you do the math
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Haha, a good 50% of this forum summarized, spelling mistake included.zekko said:
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
How do you think Trump is an AFC? He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money? OK,now he may be married now,but SPENDING his time making his millions work instead of chasing stray tail is probably making him millions. Hell, I'd be celibate for a year if you offered me a million.[I'm such a money slut] I'm betting he has his money in so many corporations-offshore etc. that she will have a hard time getting any of it. What is his time worth? Besides did you see her?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you think he is not ?
So what ? For this kind of man it doesn't matter how much money their wife takes, they can take millions and it will make very little difference. I would honestly pay a few millions just to have a few less headaches if I were a man like that.
Yes, I have seen her. And I have seen better ones with nobodies as well.