DMSR76
Senior Don Juan
I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I thought it was rather amusing. Thought I'd share.
It's simple, really...
It's simple, really...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's a lot easier to understand when you do the math
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Haha, a good 50% of this forum summarized, spelling mistake included.zekko said:
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
How do you think Trump is an AFC? He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money? OK,now he may be married now,but SPENDING his time making his millions work instead of chasing stray tail is probably making him millions. Hell, I'd be celibate for a year if you offered me a million.[I'm such a money slut] I'm betting he has his money in so many corporations-offshore etc. that she will have a hard time getting any of it. What is his time worth? Besides did you see her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you think he is not ?
So what ? For this kind of man it doesn't matter how much money their wife takes, they can take millions and it will make very little difference. I would honestly pay a few millions just to have a few less headaches if I were a man like that.
Yes, I have seen her. And I have seen better ones with nobodies as well.