"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a lot easier to understand when you do the math

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I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I thought it was rather amusing. Thought I'd share.

It's simple, really...

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like it. Even when you substitute the real line "the love of money is the root of all evil," therefore the love of women=evil
 

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But it's inverted. Money is not the root of problems, not having money is what gives you problem.

Money = solution.
 

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I don't know, but if you have money, women won't be a problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SXS said:
I don't know, but if you have money, women won't be a problem.
I don't believe this is true. Woman are always a problem.
 

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I don't believe this is true. Woman are always a problem.
really ? Before you lay down tonight to sleep, try to imagine your life if you just wake up tomorrow with a few billions in your account...
 

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For those who think money can't solve your women problems, who do you prefer to be, an AFC like Paul maccartney or Donald Trump, or and average DJ who earns a 100 times less ?
 

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How do you think Trump is an AFC? He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money? OK,now he may be married now,but SPENDING his time making his millions work instead of chasing stray tail is probably making him millions. Hell, I'd be celibate for a year if you offered me a million.[I'm such a money slut] I'm betting he has his money in so many corporations-offshore etc. that she will have a hard time getting any of it. What is his time worth? Besides did you see her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you think Trump is an AFC?
How do you think he is not ?

He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money?
So what ? For this kind of man it doesn't matter how much money their wife takes, they can take millions and it will make very little difference. I would honestly pay a few millions just to have a few less headaches if I were a man like that.

Besides did you see her?
Yes, I have seen her. And I have seen better ones with nobodies as well.
 
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