DMSR76
Senior Don Juan
I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I thought it was rather amusing. Thought I'd share.
It's simple, really...
It's simple, really...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's a lot easier to understand when you do the math
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Haha, a good 50% of this forum summarized, spelling mistake included.zekko said:
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
How do you think Trump is an AFC? He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money? OK,now he may be married now,but SPENDING his time making his millions work instead of chasing stray tail is probably making him millions. Hell, I'd be celibate for a year if you offered me a million.[I'm such a money slut] I'm betting he has his money in so many corporations-offshore etc. that she will have a hard time getting any of it. What is his time worth? Besides did you see her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do you think he is not ?
So what ? For this kind of man it doesn't matter how much money their wife takes, they can take millions and it will make very little difference. I would honestly pay a few millions just to have a few less headaches if I were a man like that.
Yes, I have seen her. And I have seen better ones with nobodies as well.