DMSR76
Senior Don Juan
I'm not sure if this has been posted before, but I thought it was rather amusing. Thought I'd share.
It's simple, really...
It's simple, really...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's a lot easier to understand when you do the math
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Haha, a good 50% of this forum summarized, spelling mistake included.zekko said:
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
How do you think Trump is an AFC? He divorced wife number 2 before the prenup expired and saved how much money? OK,now he may be married now,but SPENDING his time making his millions work instead of chasing stray tail is probably making him millions. Hell, I'd be celibate for a year if you offered me a million.[I'm such a money slut] I'm betting he has his money in so many corporations-offshore etc. that she will have a hard time getting any of it. What is his time worth? Besides did you see her?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you think he is not ?
So what ? For this kind of man it doesn't matter how much money their wife takes, they can take millions and it will make very little difference. I would honestly pay a few millions just to have a few less headaches if I were a man like that.
Yes, I have seen her. And I have seen better ones with nobodies as well.