Tell me which guys are fvcking the hottest women with your mindset ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It seems to me that women become predators towards beta males
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who thought you this lies?
Don’t expect to feel love for a woman then. Trust is the foundation love is built on…
No, just you and a few others on here.
None of the guys I know including myself who actually get women don't think like that lol not at all. They don't play victim and they damn sure don't think women have power over them lol
The only guys I know who think like y'all are the ones who are frustrated because there not doing good with women.
When someone is successful at something they don't view it in a negative way, that's usually the mindset of someone who's not doing all that great.
Shrugs......
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lamath
Master Don Juan
I wonder how much of this is socially learned and how much is biological.
Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.
Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.
Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
And when a man gets gamed by a women and falls into her frame, who's fault would you say that Is?
Your answer will let you know what side of the fence your on.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Ofc its the man s fault,
But on longer relation or ltr it can get tricky.
I think its ez to control the frame when things start but after some time it can get way harder.
I did a lot of research on personality types ECT and I remember reading how guys who are tough minded and no nonsense are very difficult to manipulate.
Guys who are nice and very agreeable tend to be very easy to manipulate AKA easy to fall into someone's frame.
It's a personality thing, I think a lot of guys should do some research on that, it will give a better understanding of things like this.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Good point there.
I might go looking for some book on this.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Having a manly or masculine frame makes it relatively easy in pulling women or in short term relationships. But it is not enough.
A man's frame is 100% this when collapsed; core values + knowledge + how he does things.
A man can't change his core values, what he can change is how he thinks. And that involves gaining more knowledge.
The more knowledge a man gains the more it influences how he does things to better reflect the outcome he desires.