"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It seems to me that women become predators towards beta males

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You have to understand the male narcissistic mind. It's like criticizing a drug addict to tell these guys they have no power over women.


Normal men lol
No, just you and a few others on here.

None of the guys I know including myself who actually get women don't think like that lol not at all. They don't play victim and they damn sure don't think women have power over them lol

The only guys I know who think like y'all are the ones who are frustrated because there not doing good with women.

When someone is successful at something they don't view it in a negative way, that's usually the mindset of someone who's not doing all that great.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wonder how much of this is socially learned and how much is biological.

Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.

Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
 

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I wonder how much of this is socially learned and how much is biological.

Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.

Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
And when a man gets gamed by a women and falls into her frame, who's fault would you say that Is?

Your answer will let you know what side of the fence your on.
 

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And when a man gets gamed by a women and falls into her frame, who's fault would you say that Is?

Your answer will let you know what side of the fence your on.
Ofc its the man s fault,


But on longer relation or ltr it can get tricky.

I think its ez to control the frame when things start but after some time it can get way harder.
 

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Ofc its the man s fault,


But on longer relation or ltr it can get tricky.

I think its ez to control the frame when things start but after some time it can get way harder.
I did a lot of research on personality types ECT and I remember reading how guys who are tough minded and no nonsense are very difficult to manipulate.

Guys who are nice and very agreeable tend to be very easy to manipulate AKA easy to fall into someone's frame.

It's a personality thing, I think a lot of guys should do some research on that, it will give a better understanding of things like this.
 

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I did a lot of research on personality types ECT and I remember reading how guys who are tough minded and no nonsense are very difficult to manipulate.

Guys who are nice and very agreeable tend to be very easy to manipulate AKA easy to fall into someone's frame.

It's a personality thing, I think a lot of guys should do some research on that, it will give a better understanding of things like this.
Good point there.
I might go looking for some book on this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think its ez to control the frame when things start but after some time it can get way harder.
Having a manly or masculine frame makes it relatively easy in pulling women or in short term relationships. But it is not enough.

A man's frame is 100% this when collapsed; core values + knowledge + how he does things.

A man can't change his core values, what he can change is how he thinks. And that involves gaining more knowledge.

The more knowledge a man gains the more it influences how he does things to better reflect the outcome he desires.
 
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