Tell me which guys are fvcking the hottest women with your mindset ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It seems to me that women become predators towards beta males
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who thought you this lies?
Don’t expect to feel love for a woman then. Trust is the foundation love is built on…
No, just you and a few others on here.
None of the guys I know including myself who actually get women don't think like that lol not at all. They don't play victim and they damn sure don't think women have power over them lol
The only guys I know who think like y'all are the ones who are frustrated because there not doing good with women.
When someone is successful at something they don't view it in a negative way, that's usually the mindset of someone who's not doing all that great.
Shrugs......
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lamath
Master Don Juan
I wonder how much of this is socially learned and how much is biological.
Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.
Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
Sometime its the other way around, men taking advantage of some women.
Men imo get caught in those more often because women are way more subtle when they pull men into their frame and they are way better at playing the long game.
And when a man gets gamed by a women and falls into her frame, who's fault would you say that Is?
Your answer will let you know what side of the fence your on.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Ofc its the man s fault,
But on longer relation or ltr it can get tricky.
I think its ez to control the frame when things start but after some time it can get way harder.
I did a lot of research on personality types ECT and I remember reading how guys who are tough minded and no nonsense are very difficult to manipulate.
Guys who are nice and very agreeable tend to be very easy to manipulate AKA easy to fall into someone's frame.
It's a personality thing, I think a lot of guys should do some research on that, it will give a better understanding of things like this.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Good point there.
I might go looking for some book on this.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Having a manly or masculine frame makes it relatively easy in pulling women or in short term relationships. But it is not enough.
A man's frame is 100% this when collapsed; core values + knowledge + how he does things.
A man can't change his core values, what he can change is how he thinks. And that involves gaining more knowledge.
The more knowledge a man gains the more it influences how he does things to better reflect the outcome he desires.