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Don Juan
How are such bitter misogynistic creeps able to rack up so many posts on here? The moderation is a joke.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My Name is Nobody said:Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.
At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.
ValleyDJing said:lol @ AFC (Savior).
Because you are not having any sex.AFC Savior said:why would I post about the girls I have sex with?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AFC Savior said:you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody
DonJuan11 said:Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
My Name is Nobody said:Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.
KontrollerX said:Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.
Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.
So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.
Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.
The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.
Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.
The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.
It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.
Learn it, Live it, Love it.KARMIC LAW #14 - Do not Instant Message, Email or text a woman if you're courting her. You instantly become her girlfriend and will not escape that club.
If you have a phone use it as it was intended. Call her and make it brief. This way you give her the gift of intrigue and not bog down her thinking when you pop into her head throughout the day.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.