"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It feels so good to set a little CVNT straight!!!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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misogynistic... damn dude you are smart, maybe one day when I grow up I want to be just as cool and smart as you are.:rockon:
 

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wow..ya'll are missing the whole point of AfcSaviors thread..all he simply did was tell off a ***** he aint give a **** about just cuz he felt like it...wtf is wrong with that? you ppl act like he has to do it the proper way...he felt like being an ******* cuz he can afford to cuz he's got back up *****es..rules and codes of a DJ...haha some posters on here need to lighten up...
 

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Thatfeel - im glad that at least some people are sane like me (and DJvladdy), i mean WHAT THE ****, this My Name Is Nobody is such a AFC, trying to find a code of honor that he needs to follow, he needs to refer to a method when it comes to telling a girl off............

hi

its my life

I will tell her all the shyt i wanna tell her

and then I will go **** my 2 girlfriends

nobody can tell me that's AFC on my part, because that message i wrote to her meant NOTHING to me, i just loved her reaction because it always feels nice to hurt a bytches feelings (trust me, her model pics make her look hot, and her regular pics make her look average, i know i struck a cord with that message to her, and tahts exactly what i wanted to accomplish)
 

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p.s. I didnt start this thread to insult the guys here......but when u come on the thread and start posting some symp bs like u care about the girl's feelings, then you WILL hear my peice, i dont lay down for anyone
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.

At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.

At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.

why would I post about the girls I have sex with? itd be too much typing for me, plus its all so simple, I already posted about that before im not gonna repeat myself

you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody

Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?
 
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He's getting upset that a guy named Nobody is giving him a hard time on the internet.

That's MR. Nobody to you, Skip.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?

He can't handle people disagreeing with him.
 
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Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.

your the dumbest thing ever really

i wasnt stood up, i saw other girls every single time she didnt follow thru, she was my backup plan!!!

the sad part is that you are talking so much shyt to a guy who has fcuked 85 girls and has the whole dating thing mastered, and u sit there trying to sound all tough even tho u have absolutely NOTHING going for u, your just a little geek online trying to playa hate
 

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Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.

Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.

So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.

Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.

The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.

Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.

The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.

It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.

Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.

So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.

Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.

The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.

Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.

The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.

It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.

yup im not worried about burning that bridge, i never met her and I have dozens of other #s and 2 girlfriends (2 plates im spinning), so me giving that bytch some smack talk is a ok in my books, because as you said, i dont care about burning that bridge, who da fvck is she to me in the first place?

i dont follow rules, i make rules
 

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You telling this girl off is just you supplicating in a different fashion. Before you or DjDan get your panties in a wad, let me ellaborate a bit.

You asked this girl out 4 times. Each time she said no. This is supplicating to her ego. You were begging her for her attention and crying out for her acceptance of you.

She did none of it. Repeatedly. By you yelling and screaming and throwing a temper tantrum, it only proves that it was her who had more control over her emotions. Which makes her the higher valued person. Now we all get a little flustered sometimes and may get pissed here and now but brother, you have got to get your sh!t together. You acted like a baby crying over your cup of spilt t!tty milk. It's more sad than pathetic because your posts in various threads are very aggressive and combative and you are stubborn to boot.

These are all feminine traits. Now you're scathing because we're not going to cater to your overblown ego and tell you that you did a good job. If anyone here tells you what you did was good then they, just as you, are fvcked up in the head and need some serious mentoring if you want to grow as a man who gives a sh!t about himself.

Check yourself brother. Check yourself deep.
 

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Jesus . . .

I took a second cursory glance at the first post and you didn't even have the balls to talk to this girl in person? You demeaned her via a text message?

Do you piss sitting down? That is the most gratuitously drab thing I've ever read. And what's worse is you applaude yourself for that behaviour :nono: .

Just horrible. Remember this:

KARMIC LAW #14 - Do not Instant Message, Email or text a woman if you're courting her. You instantly become her girlfriend and will not escape that club.

If you have a phone use it as it was intended. Call her and make it brief. This way you give her the gift of intrigue and not bog down her thinking when you pop into her head throughout the day.
Learn it, Live it, Love it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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