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Don Juan
How are such bitter misogynistic creeps able to rack up so many posts on here? The moderation is a joke.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My Name is Nobody said:Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.
At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.
ValleyDJing said:lol @ AFC (Savior).
Because you are not having any sex.AFC Savior said:why would I post about the girls I have sex with?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AFC Savior said:you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody
DonJuan11 said:Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My Name is Nobody said:Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.
KontrollerX said:Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.
Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.
So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.
Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.
The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.
Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.
The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.
It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.
Learn it, Live it, Love it.KARMIC LAW #14 - Do not Instant Message, Email or text a woman if you're courting her. You instantly become her girlfriend and will not escape that club.
If you have a phone use it as it was intended. Call her and make it brief. This way you give her the gift of intrigue and not bog down her thinking when you pop into her head throughout the day.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.