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Don Juan
How are such bitter misogynistic creeps able to rack up so many posts on here? The moderation is a joke.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My Name is Nobody said:Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.
At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.
ValleyDJing said:lol @ AFC (Savior).
Because you are not having any sex.AFC Savior said:why would I post about the girls I have sex with?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AFC Savior said:you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody
DonJuan11 said:Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
My Name is Nobody said:Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.
KontrollerX said:Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.
Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.
So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.
Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.
The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.
Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.
The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.
It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.
Learn it, Live it, Love it.KARMIC LAW #14 - Do not Instant Message, Email or text a woman if you're courting her. You instantly become her girlfriend and will not escape that club.
If you have a phone use it as it was intended. Call her and make it brief. This way you give her the gift of intrigue and not bog down her thinking when you pop into her head throughout the day.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.