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Don Juan
How are such bitter misogynistic creeps able to rack up so many posts on here? The moderation is a joke.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My Name is Nobody said:Still b!tching about a woman you didn't even have sex with... No wonder she Nexted you.
At least I have FU/KED the women I post about.
ValleyDJing said:lol @ AFC (Savior).
Because you are not having any sex.AFC Savior said:why would I post about the girls I have sex with?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
AFC Savior said:you have a weak user name azzhole, it says alot about who you are by the username you choose - you ARE a nobody
DonJuan11 said:Dude take it ez. You are putting down girls and guys left and right. And why would you respond to a girl who stood you up 4 times in 2 weeks?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My Name is Nobody said:Not only has he been stood up 4 times, he has been banned from sosuave 5 times.
KontrollerX said:Its fine to do what you did with this chick AFC Savior so long as you have made up your mind that insulting some chick who probably deserves it is worth completely burning the bridge with her and losing any possible future chance with her whatsoever.
Sometimes an arrogant chick needs to be put in her place like you have done but the idea behind the walk away advice given earlier in the thread is that simply walking away makes it so you don't burn your bridge with the chick and she may be a possibility in the future as people can both change from being cool into arrogant snobs to being arrogant snobs into being cool people lol.
So yeah its all about the kind of DJ you want to be.
Your reaction was fine if you are a no bullsh!t type of DJ that permaneantly next's all chicks in a brutal fashion who exhibit disrespectful behavior.
The other kind of DJ simply nexts this type by walking away and lets her mind wonder about why you are gone.
Sometimes she doesn't care and sometimes she is panicked by the sudden loss of your interest so changes her tune towards you entirely.
The second type of DJ doesn't burn bridges for this reason.
It makes there be potentially more women available to them but yeah once again your way of doing things is alright if you have thought it all through and decided this is the best way of DJing for you.
Learn it, Live it, Love it.KARMIC LAW #14 - Do not Instant Message, Email or text a woman if you're courting her. You instantly become her girlfriend and will not escape that club.
If you have a phone use it as it was intended. Call her and make it brief. This way you give her the gift of intrigue and not bog down her thinking when you pop into her head throughout the day.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.