so ive been hooking up with this girl every weekend, and we always end up making out with her on top of me(cow girl). Its great but when im trying to get my hand in her pants the angle is impossilbe. shes into cause i do get in there it just hurts my wrist and i have like no leverage. so do i just tell her to sit down so i can go to work or what. thanks
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Issue during make out.
- Thread starter gdi
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Just throw her off you, and you get on top of her!! Become dirty, become a BAD MAN!!!! JUst take control of the situation, and dont tell her nothing, thats not bad but is better to take the actions yourself!!
girlsarecrazy
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Attack her belt.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VegasGuy56
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The obstacle is the pants. Get rid of the obstacle. 
i know what you're talkin about dude, i hate that **** .. my wrist cramps up when i finger her when shes on top cowgirl .. so what i do i just finger her from behind .. no not her ass... n eventually she'll wanna fvck you... i promise
I've yet to finger my girl while she's in cow girl mode, but heck it doesnt seem that hard to roll her over and get on top of her. That's what I've done a few times and frankly, she never complained at all.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
so yesterday i was over and i went in from behind( i hadn't read what you posted but yeah it works well) after some pretty intesne dry humping and she was pretty wet and when id start up she'd start moaning and her sister was in ear shot along with her mom in the house so i had to take it easy. and then her dad came home and gave me the dirtiest look ever and i got the **** out haha. but thanks again for tips and advice.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Roll her over. Kiss your way down to the belly. Pay special attention to areas along the way. While your doing it, rub her thigh and work on the belt/zipper/strings or whateever.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.