so ive been hooking up with this girl every weekend, and we always end up making out with her on top of me(cow girl). Its great but when im trying to get my hand in her pants the angle is impossilbe. shes into cause i do get in there it just hurts my wrist and i have like no leverage. so do i just tell her to sit down so i can go to work or what. thanks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Issue during make out.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Just throw her off you, and you get on top of her!! Become dirty, become a BAD MAN!!!! JUst take control of the situation, and dont tell her nothing, thats not bad but is better to take the actions yourself!!
girlsarecrazy
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Attack her belt.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
VegasGuy56
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The obstacle is the pants. Get rid of the obstacle. 
i know what you're talkin about dude, i hate that **** .. my wrist cramps up when i finger her when shes on top cowgirl .. so what i do i just finger her from behind .. no not her ass... n eventually she'll wanna fvck you... i promise
I've yet to finger my girl while she's in cow girl mode, but heck it doesnt seem that hard to roll her over and get on top of her. That's what I've done a few times and frankly, she never complained at all.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
so yesterday i was over and i went in from behind( i hadn't read what you posted but yeah it works well) after some pretty intesne dry humping and she was pretty wet and when id start up she'd start moaning and her sister was in ear shot along with her mom in the house so i had to take it easy. and then her dad came home and gave me the dirtiest look ever and i got the **** out haha. but thanks again for tips and advice.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Roll her over. Kiss your way down to the belly. Pay special attention to areas along the way. While your doing it, rub her thigh and work on the belt/zipper/strings or whateever.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.