so ive been hooking up with this girl every weekend, and we always end up making out with her on top of me(cow girl). Its great but when im trying to get my hand in her pants the angle is impossilbe. shes into cause i do get in there it just hurts my wrist and i have like no leverage. so do i just tell her to sit down so i can go to work or what. thanks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Issue during make out.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
Just throw her off you, and you get on top of her!! Become dirty, become a BAD MAN!!!! JUst take control of the situation, and dont tell her nothing, thats not bad but is better to take the actions yourself!!
girlsarecrazy
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Attack her belt.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VegasGuy56
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The obstacle is the pants. Get rid of the obstacle. 
i know what you're talkin about dude, i hate that **** .. my wrist cramps up when i finger her when shes on top cowgirl .. so what i do i just finger her from behind .. no not her ass... n eventually she'll wanna fvck you... i promise
I've yet to finger my girl while she's in cow girl mode, but heck it doesnt seem that hard to roll her over and get on top of her. That's what I've done a few times and frankly, she never complained at all.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
so yesterday i was over and i went in from behind( i hadn't read what you posted but yeah it works well) after some pretty intesne dry humping and she was pretty wet and when id start up she'd start moaning and her sister was in ear shot along with her mom in the house so i had to take it easy. and then her dad came home and gave me the dirtiest look ever and i got the **** out haha. but thanks again for tips and advice.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Roll her over. Kiss your way down to the belly. Pay special attention to areas along the way. While your doing it, rub her thigh and work on the belt/zipper/strings or whateever.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.