"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Issue during make out.

gdi

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so ive been hooking up with this girl every weekend, and we always end up making out with her on top of me(cow girl). Its great but when im trying to get my hand in her pants the angle is impossilbe. shes into cause i do get in there it just hurts my wrist and i have like no leverage. so do i just tell her to sit down so i can go to work or what. thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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shydude

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Just throw her off you, and you get on top of her!! Become dirty, become a BAD MAN!!!! JUst take control of the situation, and dont tell her nothing, thats not bad but is better to take the actions yourself!!
 

girlsarecrazy

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Attack her belt.

if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
 

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i did take off the belt and zipper but that didn't really help that much cause i mean i had access but to really get inside was impossible due to the angle. Thanks for the advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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whatdude

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i know what you're talkin about dude, i hate that **** .. my wrist cramps up when i finger her when shes on top cowgirl .. so what i do i just finger her from behind .. no not her ass... n eventually she'll wanna fvck you... i promise
 

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I've yet to finger my girl while she's in cow girl mode, but heck it doesnt seem that hard to roll her over and get on top of her. That's what I've done a few times and frankly, she never complained at all.

Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
 

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so yesterday i was over and i went in from behind( i hadn't read what you posted but yeah it works well) after some pretty intesne dry humping and she was pretty wet and when id start up she'd start moaning and her sister was in ear shot along with her mom in the house so i had to take it easy. and then her dad came home and gave me the dirtiest look ever and i got the **** out haha. but thanks again for tips and advice.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Roll her over. Kiss your way down to the belly. Pay special attention to areas along the way. While your doing it, rub her thigh and work on the belt/zipper/strings or whateever.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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08aisaac

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I went from behind if I'm on bottom. Makes everything easier, I feel more in control on bottom. Make sure it isn't her "time of the month" god the horror stories.
 
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