so ive been hooking up with this girl every weekend, and we always end up making out with her on top of me(cow girl). Its great but when im trying to get my hand in her pants the angle is impossilbe. shes into cause i do get in there it just hurts my wrist and i have like no leverage. so do i just tell her to sit down so i can go to work or what. thanks
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Issue during make out.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
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shydude
Master Don Juan
Just throw her off you, and you get on top of her!! Become dirty, become a BAD MAN!!!! JUst take control of the situation, and dont tell her nothing, thats not bad but is better to take the actions yourself!!
girlsarecrazy
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Attack her belt.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
if she doesn't push away go for her buttons and zipper and bam.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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The obstacle is the pants. Get rid of the obstacle. 
i know what you're talkin about dude, i hate that **** .. my wrist cramps up when i finger her when shes on top cowgirl .. so what i do i just finger her from behind .. no not her ass... n eventually she'll wanna fvck you... i promise
I've yet to finger my girl while she's in cow girl mode, but heck it doesnt seem that hard to roll her over and get on top of her. That's what I've done a few times and frankly, she never complained at all.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
Just DO it, don't be like "Hey let me get on top and you on bottom, okay?" It may kill the mood.
so yesterday i was over and i went in from behind( i hadn't read what you posted but yeah it works well) after some pretty intesne dry humping and she was pretty wet and when id start up she'd start moaning and her sister was in ear shot along with her mom in the house so i had to take it easy. and then her dad came home and gave me the dirtiest look ever and i got the **** out haha. but thanks again for tips and advice.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Roll her over. Kiss your way down to the belly. Pay special attention to areas along the way. While your doing it, rub her thigh and work on the belt/zipper/strings or whateever.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.