“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?

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Well I have been writting songs for years. And anyways I have been with this chick for a month and I was wondering should I show her my songs or should I just shut the fvuck up about it when im with her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Song writing isn't AFC...

... writing AFC songs is AFC.


Do the **** you ever want and don't think if some stupid hoe likes or not.
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
ask paul mccartney if its a p*ssy thing to do.
Haha I was going post the same thing, except using Gene Simmons as an example.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I write and perform professionally.

It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.

Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.

The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.


some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.

It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.

I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
 

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I'm a professional musician. Do/sing/play whatever the fvck you want, that's not a dealbreaker.

Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I write poetry.
This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.

I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.

Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
 

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Originally posted by TheBadMan
Nah, writing songs is pimp. Also an easy opener..."sup girl? i need to get a female opinion on this song..." chyea!

http://www.myspace.com/zubyuk


Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.


Props.
 

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You obviously don't care too much about the content and meaning if you have to check. You wrote it, and thats all she should care about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Writing song is lame and its CHEAP.
Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.
 
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