"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Bad Ass Canadian
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It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.
Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.
The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.
some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.
It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that
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I think its AFC and lame. Prolly i will make track for her someday, maybe after marriage. Haha.
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Very nice, man..... I'm not much for that style but it sounds good.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.
I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.
Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
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Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.
Props.
splinterkb
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.