"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?

killbill

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Well I have been writting songs for years. And anyways I have been with this chick for a month and I was wondering should I show her my songs or should I just shut the fvuck up about it when im with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Song writing isn't AFC...

... writing AFC songs is AFC.


Do the **** you ever want and don't think if some stupid hoe likes or not.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
ask paul mccartney if its a p*ssy thing to do.
Haha I was going post the same thing, except using Gene Simmons as an example.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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I write and perform professionally.

It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.

Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.

The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.


some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.

It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.

I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
 

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I'm a professional musician. Do/sing/play whatever the fvck you want, that's not a dealbreaker.

Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I write poetry.
This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.

I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.

Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
 

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Originally posted by TheBadMan
Nah, writing songs is pimp. Also an easy opener..."sup girl? i need to get a female opinion on this song..." chyea!

http://www.myspace.com/zubyuk


Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.


Props.
 

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You obviously don't care too much about the content and meaning if you have to check. You wrote it, and thats all she should care about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MightyMate

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Writing song is lame and its CHEAP.
Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.
 
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