"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Bad Ass Canadian
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It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.
Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.
The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.
some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.
It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that
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I think its AFC and lame. Prolly i will make track for her someday, maybe after marriage. Haha.
http://www.myspace.com/zubyuk
The Bad Ass Canadian
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Very nice, man..... I'm not much for that style but it sounds good.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.
I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.
Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
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Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.
Props.
splinterkb
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.