"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Bad Ass Canadian
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It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.
Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.
The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.
some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.
It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that
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I think its AFC and lame. Prolly i will make track for her someday, maybe after marriage. Haha.
http://www.myspace.com/zubyuk
The Bad Ass Canadian
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Very nice, man..... I'm not much for that style but it sounds good.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.
I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.
Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
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Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.
Props.
splinterkb
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.