"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is writting songs a pvussy thing to do?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Bad Ass Canadian
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It isn't afc to sing about love and heartache.
Even the most heartfelt lyrics aren't necessarily pvssy lyrics.
The way i see it, when it comes to music, as long as the message hits a nerve with the listener, it's all good.
some of those boy bands and those emo-f@gs do play AFC songs, though.
It's all about context. As long as your lyrics don't reflect some love sick puppy, I don't see anything wrong with it.
I may post a few of my songs up here, sometime for you all to hear. I'll let you decide if it's AFC or not... not that I care what anyone thinks, anyways
Just don't try to impress her or buy her approval with it (e.g. let her discover what you do, rather than bring it up 5 minutes into a random conversation). That would be supplicating. But of course, you already knew that
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I think its AFC and lame. Prolly i will make track for her someday, maybe after marriage. Haha.
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Very nice, man..... I'm not much for that style but it sounds good.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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This is gold. I'm a writer/Independant Filmmaker and I can wholeheartedly attest that women abso-tively go crazy for guys who write thoughtful, insightful poetry or prose.
I have three standard poems that I'll pass off to the new flavor o' the week which makes 'em swoon.
Drips of confidence and they smell it . . .
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Dope threads Brother. "Before" is a really good tune.
Props.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Also You say 'do whatever You want dont think if its afc or not'. If You feel like You want to give woman so much power, and show that You care for her that much - You must be either a kamikaze or crazy.