MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yes, they are real models, we should ask DONUTELLO to paint them. he will sure need a LARGE canvas. he will need a lot of PI to create a good all a-ROUND picture.Lord Hypnos said:you fellas are being close minded here.... they're all beautiful on the inside. there's just more of them to love. let's face it, those twiggy stretch-mark-less women are boring and shallow. a BBW can appreciate the finer things in life that you can never get with a twig, like pie eating contests and late night poutine runs. :cheer:
CrimsonPanther said:yes, they are real models, we should ask DONUTELLO to paint them. he will sure need a LARGE canvas. he will need a lot of PI to create a good all a-ROUND picture.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And it's not just visually or aesthetically appealing, it's for because you can POSITION a thin woman for fvcking in a lot more variety pretzel positions, my fav being her on her side and twisted at the waist beautiful ****** propped up for side-fvcking..a fat b!tch can't twist like that really, and she's just a BOARD and straight block of wood clump. Her box is like a shoe box and it's really worse than masturbating, and just as inanimate..immovableDesdinova said:...and the "Fat is Beautiful" propaganda continues regardless of the fact that men are naturally attracted to women who's bodies aren't ugly clumps of half-mixed dough.
This.Poonani Maker said:And it's not just visually or aesthetically appealing, it's for because you can POSITION a thin woman for fvcking in a lot more variety ...a fat b!tch is like a shoe box and it's really worse than masturbating, and just as inanimate..immovable
We can't make the fatties feel bad about themselves. It's not their fault that they don't have the strength of character to get up and walk every morning, or to not have dessert with every meal. They need dessert. Without it, they're unfulfilled and not self-actualized. The fact that you have to work out and eat well to look good is an oppressive manifestation of a male-dominated, unevolved, not-very-nice-to-everybody society.MikeOck said:. . . temporarily banned from Facebook for arguing that this campaign to normalize obesity is bad for society.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.