MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yes, they are real models, we should ask DONUTELLO to paint them. he will sure need a LARGE canvas. he will need a lot of PI to create a good all a-ROUND picture.Lord Hypnos said:you fellas are being close minded here.... they're all beautiful on the inside. there's just more of them to love. let's face it, those twiggy stretch-mark-less women are boring and shallow. a BBW can appreciate the finer things in life that you can never get with a twig, like pie eating contests and late night poutine runs. :cheer:
CrimsonPanther said:yes, they are real models, we should ask DONUTELLO to paint them. he will sure need a LARGE canvas. he will need a lot of PI to create a good all a-ROUND picture.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And it's not just visually or aesthetically appealing, it's for because you can POSITION a thin woman for fvcking in a lot more variety pretzel positions, my fav being her on her side and twisted at the waist beautiful ****** propped up for side-fvcking..a fat b!tch can't twist like that really, and she's just a BOARD and straight block of wood clump. Her box is like a shoe box and it's really worse than masturbating, and just as inanimate..immovableDesdinova said:...and the "Fat is Beautiful" propaganda continues regardless of the fact that men are naturally attracted to women who's bodies aren't ugly clumps of half-mixed dough.
This.Poonani Maker said:And it's not just visually or aesthetically appealing, it's for because you can POSITION a thin woman for fvcking in a lot more variety ...a fat b!tch is like a shoe box and it's really worse than masturbating, and just as inanimate..immovable
We can't make the fatties feel bad about themselves. It's not their fault that they don't have the strength of character to get up and walk every morning, or to not have dessert with every meal. They need dessert. Without it, they're unfulfilled and not self-actualized. The fact that you have to work out and eat well to look good is an oppressive manifestation of a male-dominated, unevolved, not-very-nice-to-everybody society.MikeOck said:. . . temporarily banned from Facebook for arguing that this campaign to normalize obesity is bad for society.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.