So it seems like I can only focus on one girl at a time... even to a point where I have to pretty much ignore or tell a girl to F*** off before I can get my mind off of her and onto another one. It's really easy for me to write a girl off, and just move onto the next or find another one. Girls seem to be much better at like keeping their minds on three different guys at once, probably something to do with security. Does this have to do with oneitis? Is this something I should change?
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is this normal... that i can only focus on one girl at a time?
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Yep. Women have longer attention spans than us biologicaly. Not only is this normal its better anyways.. just don't get with the 1 girl and forget you have other options.
Make it be known by your actions she's very replacable.
Good luck on your journey keep us posted
Chris
Make it be known by your actions she's very replacable.
Good luck on your journey keep us posted
Chris
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Women? The same one's whose opinions change literally with the weather? I'll say women can stretch their attention wider, by guys are a lot more singleminded.cola said:
Anyway, back to the thread, from experience keeping the number low works best unless you have nothing else to do. Between working and a hobby, it's tought to keep up with two let along more. You're always running somewhere or hearing a story that you just don't care about on top of trying to keep it secret that you are taking to someone else. Then if they do know, they're trying to one up the other women so you'll spend more time with them. I say just slow down, take one at a time and let what happens happen.
Well, I'll tell you what I do. Usually I'm talking to more than 1 girl at a time (but very casually), but I'll focus more on one than the others. When things go bad with her (and they eventually do) I focus on another one. I also don't care if they know that I'm talking to other girls, if they ask I tell them. Right now I have 2 girls that I'm talking to (not counting the one that went bad recently, who knows whats gonna happen with her).
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