OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
haha, nice perfume.. smells like my dog's shampoo..! lol.. that might be kinda mean!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
is this neg too strong?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
GloriouslyInsane
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Yeah it would, "reminds me of my granma" would be still pushing it but its better 
It depends on the woman and on your attitude how far you can go. I generally avoid comments about their physical appearance, (though calling a skinny hotty fat rarely causes offence if done properly), preferring to tease them about being clumsy, retarded, racist, a paedophile, etc. The hotter they are the more they love it. If you have rapport, wit and charm, you can almost never go too far.
GloriouslyInsane
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I guess it depends on how much you can "project" (through body language/voice/eyes) that you're joking how far you can take it.It is true you can say straight-out insults and still get a laugh back.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TheFlyingMan
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man a friend saying i got a small d1ck in fun is very different from guys saying i'm a social retard because i made a few comments that was pushed too far...my guys always poke sh1t at each other saying you got a small d1ck etc and who cares about that?Latinoman said:
flippinfreak
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FlyingMan, half the guys on here are retards anyhow
Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
TheFlyingMan
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thanks flippin, appreciate your comments. like i said, i sometimes take a joke too far and stop myself too late, so I was wondering how bad it was because she didn't react badly, but I heard other guys say something far less offensive and other girls would freak out.