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haha, nice perfume.. smells like my dog's shampoo..! lol.. that might be kinda mean!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
is this neg too strong?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
GloriouslyInsane
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Yeah it would, "reminds me of my granma" would be still pushing it but its better 
It depends on the woman and on your attitude how far you can go. I generally avoid comments about their physical appearance, (though calling a skinny hotty fat rarely causes offence if done properly), preferring to tease them about being clumsy, retarded, racist, a paedophile, etc. The hotter they are the more they love it. If you have rapport, wit and charm, you can almost never go too far.
GloriouslyInsane
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I guess it depends on how much you can "project" (through body language/voice/eyes) that you're joking how far you can take it.It is true you can say straight-out insults and still get a laugh back.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheFlyingMan
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man a friend saying i got a small d1ck in fun is very different from guys saying i'm a social retard because i made a few comments that was pushed too far...my guys always poke sh1t at each other saying you got a small d1ck etc and who cares about that?Latinoman said:
flippinfreak
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FlyingMan, half the guys on here are retards anyhow
Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
TheFlyingMan
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thanks flippin, appreciate your comments. like i said, i sometimes take a joke too far and stop myself too late, so I was wondering how bad it was because she didn't react badly, but I heard other guys say something far less offensive and other girls would freak out.