"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this neg too strong?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Yeah it would, "reminds me of my granma" would be still pushing it but its better :p
 

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It depends on the woman and on your attitude how far you can go. I generally avoid comments about their physical appearance, (though calling a skinny hotty fat rarely causes offence if done properly), preferring to tease them about being clumsy, retarded, racist, a paedophile, etc. The hotter they are the more they love it. If you have rapport, wit and charm, you can almost never go too far.
 

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I guess it depends on how much you can "project" (through body language/voice/eyes) that you're joking how far you can take it.It is true you can say straight-out insults and still get a laugh back.
 

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TheFlyingMan said:
OK i think this is getting out of hand, attacking my character and so on...

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So...you can throw the "neg-hits"...but you cannot handle something similar?

Wow! That certaintly tells me a LOT about your character.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holland

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Well if she has some nice big tits you could say that

But if she has average tits you shouldn't say that.
 

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Latinoman said:
So...you can throw the "neg-hits"...but you cannot handle something similar?

Wow! That certaintly tells me a LOT about your character.
man a friend saying i got a small d1ck in fun is very different from guys saying i'm a social retard because i made a few comments that was pushed too far...my guys always poke sh1t at each other saying you got a small d1ck etc and who cares about that?
 

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FlyingMan, half the guys on here are retards anyhow;)

Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
 

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thanks flippin, appreciate your comments. like i said, i sometimes take a joke too far and stop myself too late, so I was wondering how bad it was because she didn't react badly, but I heard other guys say something far less offensive and other girls would freak out.
 
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