"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is this neg too strong?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Yeah it would, "reminds me of my granma" would be still pushing it but its better :p
 

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It depends on the woman and on your attitude how far you can go. I generally avoid comments about their physical appearance, (though calling a skinny hotty fat rarely causes offence if done properly), preferring to tease them about being clumsy, retarded, racist, a paedophile, etc. The hotter they are the more they love it. If you have rapport, wit and charm, you can almost never go too far.
 

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I guess it depends on how much you can "project" (through body language/voice/eyes) that you're joking how far you can take it.It is true you can say straight-out insults and still get a laugh back.
 

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TheFlyingMan said:
OK i think this is getting out of hand, attacking my character and so on...

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So...you can throw the "neg-hits"...but you cannot handle something similar?

Wow! That certaintly tells me a LOT about your character.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well if she has some nice big tits you could say that

But if she has average tits you shouldn't say that.
 

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Latinoman said:
So...you can throw the "neg-hits"...but you cannot handle something similar?

Wow! That certaintly tells me a LOT about your character.
man a friend saying i got a small d1ck in fun is very different from guys saying i'm a social retard because i made a few comments that was pushed too far...my guys always poke sh1t at each other saying you got a small d1ck etc and who cares about that?
 

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FlyingMan, half the guys on here are retards anyhow;)

Start reading individual messages instead of focusing on each comment as a whole.
 

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thanks flippin, appreciate your comments. like i said, i sometimes take a joke too far and stop myself too late, so I was wondering how bad it was because she didn't react badly, but I heard other guys say something far less offensive and other girls would freak out.
 
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