"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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clueless61

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Ok, I am clueless at this point, long story short started University a few weeks back and there is this chic who was a friend of the family years ago and havent seen in like 10 years, anyways i started showin her intrest and she kinda pulled away so i stayed away and now that i have retreated she's come on strong and we've hung out pretty close the last few days, but every now and then she mentions her bf( it aint serious) and all that, but now today in school she decided to cling to this other dude all day almost to make me jelous, maybe its just me here but is this all a test to see how I react??? anyone please help
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Afrodisiac21

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You didn't provide enough information
but if i were to guess she sounds like an attention seeking *****
turn the tables on her and start flirting with other girls, im sure she'll come running back to you, once she see's that your not phased by her.
 
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Recluce

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when she tries to make you jealous don't let her. just smile and know that she's coming back to you and go flirt with some other girls
 
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Dukester

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you didnt give us much to go off of.....
post a new thread when you have more, better info that we can help ya with.

for now, i'd say just dont get jealous, then you'll loose her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dapper Swindler

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Don't put up with this soap opera junk. Ask her out, if she says no then next her and flirt with other girls.
 
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