"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this a test

clueless61

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Ok, I am clueless at this point, long story short started University a few weeks back and there is this chic who was a friend of the family years ago and havent seen in like 10 years, anyways i started showin her intrest and she kinda pulled away so i stayed away and now that i have retreated she's come on strong and we've hung out pretty close the last few days, but every now and then she mentions her bf( it aint serious) and all that, but now today in school she decided to cling to this other dude all day almost to make me jelous, maybe its just me here but is this all a test to see how I react??? anyone please help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Afrodisiac21

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You didn't provide enough information
but if i were to guess she sounds like an attention seeking *****
turn the tables on her and start flirting with other girls, im sure she'll come running back to you, once she see's that your not phased by her.
 

Recluce

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when she tries to make you jealous don't let her. just smile and know that she's coming back to you and go flirt with some other girls
 

Dukester

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you didnt give us much to go off of.....
post a new thread when you have more, better info that we can help ya with.

for now, i'd say just dont get jealous, then you'll loose her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dapper Swindler

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Don't put up with this soap opera junk. Ask her out, if she says no then next her and flirt with other girls.
 
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