"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is this a test

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clueless61

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Ok, I am clueless at this point, long story short started University a few weeks back and there is this chic who was a friend of the family years ago and havent seen in like 10 years, anyways i started showin her intrest and she kinda pulled away so i stayed away and now that i have retreated she's come on strong and we've hung out pretty close the last few days, but every now and then she mentions her bf( it aint serious) and all that, but now today in school she decided to cling to this other dude all day almost to make me jelous, maybe its just me here but is this all a test to see how I react??? anyone please help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Afrodisiac21

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You didn't provide enough information
but if i were to guess she sounds like an attention seeking *****
turn the tables on her and start flirting with other girls, im sure she'll come running back to you, once she see's that your not phased by her.
 
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when she tries to make you jealous don't let her. just smile and know that she's coming back to you and go flirt with some other girls
 
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you didnt give us much to go off of.....
post a new thread when you have more, better info that we can help ya with.

for now, i'd say just dont get jealous, then you'll loose her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't put up with this soap opera junk. Ask her out, if she says no then next her and flirt with other girls.
 
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