"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is this a test

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clueless61

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Ok, I am clueless at this point, long story short started University a few weeks back and there is this chic who was a friend of the family years ago and havent seen in like 10 years, anyways i started showin her intrest and she kinda pulled away so i stayed away and now that i have retreated she's come on strong and we've hung out pretty close the last few days, but every now and then she mentions her bf( it aint serious) and all that, but now today in school she decided to cling to this other dude all day almost to make me jelous, maybe its just me here but is this all a test to see how I react??? anyone please help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You didn't provide enough information
but if i were to guess she sounds like an attention seeking *****
turn the tables on her and start flirting with other girls, im sure she'll come running back to you, once she see's that your not phased by her.
 
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when she tries to make you jealous don't let her. just smile and know that she's coming back to you and go flirt with some other girls
 
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you didnt give us much to go off of.....
post a new thread when you have more, better info that we can help ya with.

for now, i'd say just dont get jealous, then you'll loose her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Don't put up with this soap opera junk. Ask her out, if she says no then next her and flirt with other girls.
 
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