"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Is this a guaranteed lay?

W

wonderer

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2014
Messages
253
Reaction score
36
Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

marmel75

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
No such thing as a guaranteed lay until you are inside of her...
 
D

dude99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2016
Messages
2,550
Reaction score
3,105
Age
53
wonderer said:
Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
Click to expand...
She asked if you were gay. She wants you to be her buddy. Don't go.
 
dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
Go over there and escalate. Dont screw around. Apply massive kino...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

D

dude99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2016
Messages
2,550
Reaction score
3,105
Age
53
wonderer said:
Or she ws trying to find out if I was available for her?
Click to expand...
Maybe. Usually ladies will ask if you're single. I've never had one ask if i was gay. Maybe its a generational thing.
 
C

Calum Tingham

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 30, 2016
Messages
26
Reaction score
2
Age
36
Location
In The Land Of Women
If you're getting, "Are you gay?"

You probably aren't applying enough sexuality to the interaction.
If you're doing it right. She will know the deal.

Still, I suggest going if it won't cost you too much.
The real answers come from throwing yourself into the situation, and learning afterwards.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top