Is this a guaranteed lay?

[wonderer]

Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.

 

[marmel75]

No such thing as a guaranteed lay until you are inside of her...

 

[dude99]

Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.

She asked if you were gay. She wants you to be her buddy. Don't go.

 

[EyeBRollin]

The closest thing to a guarenteed lay is when you tell her explicitly to come over and she complies.

 

[dustmuffin]

Go over there and escalate. Dont screw around. Apply massive kino...

 

[wonderer]

She asked if you were gay. She wants you to be her buddy. Don't go.

Or she ws trying to find out if I was available for her?

 

[dude99]

Or she ws trying to find out if I was available for her?

Maybe. Usually ladies will ask if you're single. I've never had one ask if i was gay. Maybe its a generational thing.

 

[Calum Tingham]

If you're getting, "Are you gay?"

You probably aren't applying enough sexuality to the interaction.
If you're doing it right. She will know the deal.

Still, I suggest going if it won't cost you too much.
The real answers come from throwing yourself into the situation, and learning afterwards.