"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No such thing as a guaranteed lay until you are inside of her...
 
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wonderer said:
Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
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She asked if you were gay. She wants you to be her buddy. Don't go.
 
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Go over there and escalate. Dont screw around. Apply massive kino...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wonderer said:
Or she ws trying to find out if I was available for her?
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Maybe. Usually ladies will ask if you're single. I've never had one ask if i was gay. Maybe its a generational thing.
 
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If you're getting, "Are you gay?"

You probably aren't applying enough sexuality to the interaction.
If you're doing it right. She will know the deal.

Still, I suggest going if it won't cost you too much.
The real answers come from throwing yourself into the situation, and learning afterwards.
 
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