"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No such thing as a guaranteed lay until you are inside of her...
 
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wonderer said:
Met a girl at a club, we got talking and had similar interests, I like fashion as she does, she actually asks if Im gay because of it. Her group of friends join my group of friends and we spend the club together, she was with another dude. she mightve f*cked him, who knows. I was pursuing a friend of hers.

She is from italy and we send a few messages here and there, she asks me to come visit her, I never really replied until I thought id see where this goes, I said I could be tempted but none of my friends want to, so she says to come, itl be worth it and to stay at hers, she has a sofa bed at hers.

Surely shes not asking me to go over to be her best pal? Id love to f*ck her for the weekend. I have free accommodation and want to go to Milan anyway. Worst comes to worst I could hit on her friends.
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She asked if you were gay. She wants you to be her buddy. Don't go.
 
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Go over there and escalate. Dont screw around. Apply massive kino...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wonderer said:
Or she ws trying to find out if I was available for her?
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Maybe. Usually ladies will ask if you're single. I've never had one ask if i was gay. Maybe its a generational thing.
 
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If you're getting, "Are you gay?"

You probably aren't applying enough sexuality to the interaction.
If you're doing it right. She will know the deal.

Still, I suggest going if it won't cost you too much.
The real answers come from throwing yourself into the situation, and learning afterwards.
 
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