"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is this a good idea?

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ok me and this girl layed on her couch yesterday made out and i got some realy good kino in. she closed her eyes and every thing but the problem is i asked her out cause she knew i liked her. but shes like we cant i like to many people now im like wtf why does that matter u like me im here and im the one asking whats wrong then she just said we cant be friends with benifits then i said why not she said again we cant. wtf im thinking to just leave it and be her friend then mabe shell realize that she wants me where should i go now
did i do something wrong or is she just fd up in the head?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Both.

When she said no, just leave it at that and keep mackin' on the broad.

After that, continue on as if nothing happened.

Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
 
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do u think i should come back to her later like a few monthes later my bday is coming up soon can i use that to get some stuff from her :) lol
 
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Messed up on your part, saying you like her which is a strong SOI, and I'm assuming she never SOIed that hard. Don't both saying to a girl "I like you" that just causes you to buy into her frame and whateva frame you had doesn't exist no more because you just gave her all your power.
 
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i was talking to her friend and she asked her if she liked me she said a litte
whats that mean do i have a chance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
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yep yep! I like the way this guy thinks! haha
 
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