"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is this a good idea?

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ok me and this girl layed on her couch yesterday made out and i got some realy good kino in. she closed her eyes and every thing but the problem is i asked her out cause she knew i liked her. but shes like we cant i like to many people now im like wtf why does that matter u like me im here and im the one asking whats wrong then she just said we cant be friends with benifits then i said why not she said again we cant. wtf im thinking to just leave it and be her friend then mabe shell realize that she wants me where should i go now
did i do something wrong or is she just fd up in the head?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Both.

When she said no, just leave it at that and keep mackin' on the broad.

After that, continue on as if nothing happened.

Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
 
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do u think i should come back to her later like a few monthes later my bday is coming up soon can i use that to get some stuff from her :) lol
 
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Messed up on your part, saying you like her which is a strong SOI, and I'm assuming she never SOIed that hard. Don't both saying to a girl "I like you" that just causes you to buy into her frame and whateva frame you had doesn't exist no more because you just gave her all your power.
 
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i was talking to her friend and she asked her if she liked me she said a litte
whats that mean do i have a chance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
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yep yep! I like the way this guy thinks! haha
 
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